![]() ![]() The upshot is and will always be knowing your own mind and making choices accordingly, but you and he can learn a lot on the way there about how well you two work together. Can you be honest and thorough in discussing the pros and cons? How good are each of you at articulating your needs? And then standing up for those needs to make sure they're met?Īnd, big one: What are your priorities? If you see a home as not a home without a pet, and if he sees a home with a pet as limiting your ability to go out together and do things and be spontaneous-both completely valid positions-then whose priority comes first? Can you manage both having a dog and having some freedom? I actually can't really do much for you here, because the answer to the "how much weight to give" question can be anything from zero to 100 percent, depending on a bunch of variables.īut the puppy question looks to me like an incredibly useful opportunity for you two, to figure each other out and to get a better understanding of yourselves. Why? What's the difference between puppy now and puppy later?
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